So I'm reminded today more than usual, that my mother has well, Alzheimer's. Because I'm looking for the brownies I baked instead of a cake for my aunt's birthaversary.
My mom loves sweets more than God. So usually, I can figure out where she hides them. I know she has a chocolate chip stash - I understand that. I have one too for PMS purposes only, of course.
But here's the real gig - wherever the brownies may rest in peace, I'm thinking of my friends and my family that also care for their mothers and fathers.
We all have our moments and the joy that comes with giving care to someone that brought us into this life is endless. I sent my mom to bed thanking her for all the laughter we shared today. (including brownie loss)
The responsibilities are endless when caring for a person who can't remember what day it is. The joy is bigger than that.
Where have all the brownies gone?
Here's a shout out to all of the people providing in-home care for their family members! May their numbers increase as we gather in community to support one another in providing this life-giving care.
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